When you actually take the time to reflect on who you are and where you’ve came from you realize you are powerful. You’re strong in every sense of the word and have the world to conquer. You’ve gotten your heart broken and mended, climbed up from your lows, and stood taller than your haters, and don’t you ever forget it. Your past doesn’t define you, but it does bring tremendous character for you to be the strong and amazing person you are.
You are a blank canvas, and I ,of course, mean this figuratively even though the meaning is deeper. You have abstract ideas that have yet to manifest, and you have places you want to go. You are unique, and you are unable to be copied in any way. You have a plan, a journey, to make that doesn’t require a lot of things just yourself and your deepest ambitions. It’s ok to not include everyone in your Journey because sometimes it is just personal.
Your journey is your own and no matter how many facts, opinions, and concerns people throw your way at the end of the day your footsteps make your choices. Being able to effectively grow and become the person you want to be takes courage to forget the haters and become taller. Your journey should be full of ideas, twists, and turns that can’t always be explained. You grow because you open your mind to the new things you’ll encounter; hence why your canvas will be filled with beauty that is indescribably radiant. You will hurt and you will be hurt on your journey, but I can promise that in the end you’ll be victorious.
Everyone won’t understand your journey, and believe it or not you’ll learn who is in your corner. Some decisions you make make drive people crazy or away, but that could actually be a blessing in disguise. Those that love and support you will always see success in your outcome. It will be hard, but within you you’ll see changes you never knew was possible.
The things you may want or desire will change, and sometimes they loop around. However the universe has a way of showing you your greater good and where your true heart desire lies. Don’t be discouraged by the disappointments, heart breaks, liars, cheaters, and bullies of your journey. You’re stronger than your biggest let downs and ultimately you ARE a winner. Your journey is your OWN, and when the timing is right and when things are clear the bigger picture is put in place; at that point a new level of your journey will come together.
Until next time,
I’ve learned, that when you do something you should always give your best everytime. If people use what you love to tear you down then you don’t need those people around you, and you should continue to do what you love anyway ! Genuine love isn’t about taking shots to hurt someone, and we should all remember that.
Until next time,
Hello ladies and gents ! Today I want to address something that’s been on my mind. I see it happening everyday and ultimately it gets people down, but I want to help. So to start I’ll ask this question has anything or anyone ever tried to make you feel as if you’re not good enough ? And if so how did you handle it? Did you reflect? Did it hurt your self esteem? Or did you do what I hope you did and ask what makes you any better or in better shape than me? I know I asked a lot, but I’m getting somewhere, I promise.
The point is you can’t stop people from judging you, but you can’t let that stop you from seeing all the amazing things you’re capable of. You shouldn’t want to be around anything or anyone that makes you feel inferior. You exist so therefore you matter and you can’t let those that are on their high horses effect your self worth. The truth of the matter is no one is perfect; in fact we’re all quite far from it, but that doeant mean your good qualities are unoticed. Everyone has something to bring to the table and we must make ourselves open to the serving.
Now don’t get me wrong there’s a difference between figuring out that something is not for you and just denying something based on circumstance and appearance. You are a dynamite person and you shouldn’t let others opinions and arrogance turn you into a hermit who hides in their shell. Embrace your differences and if it goes unappreciated or unccepted then remove yourself from that setting ; because they aren’t deserving of all the greatness you have to offer. You’re allowed to know what you want, but it isn’t fair to anyone else being stepped on because they’re not your ideal pedigree. A good heart goes along way and has achieved greatness without a perfect standardized test score, money in the bank, and an entire crowd of faces.
All I’m getting at is that anyone has the power to change, grow, or completely turn around this world we all share. So don’t forget that you are just as special, deserving, and worthy as ANY ONE ELSE! and if anyone else tells you other wise just smile and move along because you have nothing to prove to no one else. So what if they may SEEM, being the key word, in a better place in their life than yours what you have inside of you is fire that is more beautiful than any materialistic achievement. Be unapologetically you ! And in due time the right people will surround you and will continue to do so. Don’t waste your awesomesauce on people that view you as ordinary because ordinary people follow the path out for them to please ordinary people.
You, however are a trailblazer and you make your own paths and move to the beat of your own drum and that, I think, is extraordinary ! It may bother you at first having doors slammed in your face, but that will only lead to more opportunities. Don’t ever think it can’t get better because it can; the more people and things reject you the stronger you become and the more you grow. This summer has taught me a lot about myself and I can tell you even I have plenty to bring to the table. It’s not you’re problem that others can’t quite accept how great you are eventually in time their learn that lesson and in the mean time you’ll learn yours. Always put your best foot forward because when you least expect those that are most deserving will notice EXACTLY how amazing you are and all that comes with you.
“Be not afraid of greatness. Some are born great, some achieve greatness, and some have greatness thrust upon them”
Youre greater than some may ever give you credit for, and that’s quite alright because you have nothing to prove. So be bigger than your greatest fear and stronger than your biggest opposition. If no one else tells you you’re great; allow me to tell you how amazing you are. You are NOT a waste of space but you are a space well kept and anything is possible. So remember it’s not your job to make those that are on a pedestal see how great you are, but it is your responsibility to KNOW how FANTASTIC you are.
Until next time,
Hello ladies and gents ! So today I decided to write about change and how incredibly necessary it is. I’m sure we all know that change is good, but quite often when it’s time to make that change we can be stubborn to it. It’s scary realizing that who you were or who you want to be at some point required or requires a great change. Whether it’s transferring schools, living on your own for the first time or just putting yourself in a whole new mind set. I want to assure you though change is not the gloomy depressing sentence it use to be; in fact change is highly encouraged.
Life is full of change without us even noticing, but we only notice when it directly effects our own little bubble. Now don’t get me wrong some change isn’t exactly ideal cause there are those that may change for the wrong reasons and may ultimately scare us. Bad change is very manipulative and wants you to believe that all change can be that harmful, but the reality is that it is only the tip of the iceberg. Good change though comes in waves and pushes you to be better than what you are now, and it is this type of change you should aim for. So let’s get into it deeper.
Remember when you were in that awkward puberty phase and you had oily skin and terrible hair days ?( I remember if you don’t). Well change hits you just like puberty and just like that it can be awkwardly and untimely, but once you actually start to embrace it you’ll feel so much better. You gain confidence and realize people will start to view you in a whole new light; whether that be in a mature manner or just plain empowering. You begin to learn things about youself AND those around you creating phases that allow you to think and act on a situational basis. Typically this is the beginning stages of change; we’ll consider this the teen phase.
The Next Phase is the Adolescent phase; you’re no longer a teenager, but you’re definitely not old enough to get into a bar; change in this phase is more emotional. By this point you may have gotten your heart broken a few times and you’re not the low guarded innocent child you once were. Actually this change is the hardest and is something that stays with you;you learn how to think more intensively about the world around you and those you surround yourself with. Now this is a crucial change because you learn how to get rid of those that hinder good change and poison your surrounding. It’s important to learn balance in this phase because you don’t want to be one of those people that emotionally can’t handle change and break down from any new experience.
The last phase is the big boy/girl adult phase. This part of change is more situational. At this point you’ve come into changes, dealt with new emotions, and now your applying it to your full adult life; which if you’re anything like me is hard sometimes. Change is hard in this phase because you’ve established so much while trying to figure out this crazy adult life. However you realize you’re not the same and all the mistakes and heart ache from the past has changed you drastically. It’s in this phase you truly determine if you’re a victim of past scorn or if the changes you’ve made improved you as a person. You no longer make up excuses because of what another had done to you and you go on. You make a lot of decisions as to whether something is worth holding on to or letting go to allow opportunity. Letting go is definitely a hard change to come by, but in order to get what is best for you, its necessary ! Unfortunately this phase of change makes some the most stubborn allowing little to no change to happen. At that point you must either set an example by showing how change could be beneficial to not only self but another or you have to drop dead weight. In reality by the adult phase most don’t want change or seek it because they may feel incapable of it. The thought of stepping outside the box is overwhelming. You can’t force them to change, believe me, so you must press forward, and who knows they may decide to catch up.
In order to grow you have to be open to every opportunity life throws your way. You don’t have to accept everything; that might take quite the adjustment. However just like dating it doesn’t hurt to have options.
Until next time,