Hello ladies and gents !  Today I want to address something that’s been on my mind. I see it happening everyday and ultimately it gets people down, but I want to help. So to start I’ll ask this question has anything or anyone  ever tried to make you feel as if you’re not good enough ? And if so how did you handle it? Did you reflect? Did it hurt your self esteem? Or did you do what I hope you did and ask what makes you any better or in better shape than me? I know I asked a lot, but I’m getting somewhere, I promise. 

The point is you can’t stop people from judging you, but you can’t let that stop you from seeing all the amazing things you’re capable of. You shouldn’t want to be around anything or anyone that makes you feel inferior. You exist so therefore you matter and you can’t let those that are on their high horses effect your self worth. The truth of the matter is no one is perfect; in fact we’re all quite far from it, but that doeant mean your good qualities are unoticed. Everyone has something to bring to the table and we must make ourselves open to the serving. 

Now don’t get me wrong there’s a difference between figuring out that something is not for you and just denying something based on circumstance and appearance. You are a dynamite person and you shouldn’t let others opinions and arrogance turn you into a hermit who hides in their shell. Embrace your differences and if it goes unappreciated or unccepted then remove yourself from that setting ; because they aren’t deserving of all the greatness you have to offer. You’re allowed to know what you want, but it isn’t fair to anyone else being stepped on because they’re not your ideal pedigree. A good heart goes along way and has achieved greatness without a perfect standardized test score, money in the bank, and an entire crowd of faces. 

All I’m getting at is that anyone has the power to change, grow, or completely turn around this world we all share. So don’t forget that you are just as special, deserving, and worthy as ANY ONE ELSE! and if anyone else tells you other wise just smile and move along because you have nothing to prove to no one else. So what if they may SEEM, being the key word, in a better place in their life than yours what you have inside of you is fire that is more beautiful than any materialistic achievement. Be unapologetically you ! And in due time the right people will surround you and will continue to do so. Don’t waste your awesomesauce on people that view you as ordinary because ordinary people follow the path out for them to please ordinary people. 

You, however are a trailblazer and you make your own paths and move to the beat of your own drum and that, I think, is extraordinary ! It may bother you at first having doors slammed in your face, but that will only lead to more opportunities. Don’t ever think it can’t get better because it can; the more people and things reject you the stronger you become and the more you grow. This summer has taught me a lot about myself and I can tell you even I have plenty to bring to the table. It’s not you’re problem that others can’t quite accept how great you are eventually in time their learn that lesson and in the mean time you’ll learn yours. Always put your best foot forward because when you least expect those that are most deserving will notice EXACTLY how amazing you are and all that comes with you. 

Be not afraid of greatness. Some are born great, some achieve greatness, and some have greatness thrust upon them”

-William Shakespeare 

Youre greater than some may ever give you credit for, and that’s quite alright because you have nothing to prove. So be bigger than your greatest fear and stronger than your biggest opposition. If no one else tells you you’re great; allow me to tell you how amazing you are. You are NOT a waste of space but you are a space well kept and anything is possible. So remember it’s not your job to make those that are on a pedestal see how great you are, but it is your responsibility to KNOW how FANTASTIC you are.

Until next time,

Moli 💕